What would happen if you spent 90 minutes without your phone? No photos. No scrolling. No
Instagram stories. Just you, your children, and real-time, unplugged joy.

That’s the question we asked families at Splash Park—and the answers surprised even us.
In a world where screens are the third parent in most households, digital detox has become
more than a wellness trend—it’s a survival strategy. But asking families to go device-free isn’t
about judgment. It’s about rediscovery.

“At first I felt twitchy without my phone,” one mum admitted. “Then I realised I hadn’t really
watched my son play in weeks.”

What We Observed

The first 10 minutes were awkward. Parents reached for phones that weren’t there. Children
asked to take photos. But then—something shifted.

Laughter got louder. Eye contact returned. Parents jumped in the fountains. Siblings teamed
up for splash games. It was like watching colour return to a black-and-white film.

“He yelled, ‘Dad, you’re actually looking!’” a father told us, eyes misty. “That one sentence hit
me harder than any app ever could.”

The Neuroscience of Presence

Devices aren’t inherently evil, but they disrupt co-regulation—that delicate emotional
exchange between parent and child. When we’re on our phones, we’re not just distracted—
we’re emotionally unavailable. This impacts:

• Emotional security
• Language development
• Behavioural regulation

At Splash Park, the natural rhythm of the fountains, the open space, and the shared laughter
pull families into the now. It’s mindfulness in motion.

Tips for Your Own Digital Detox Visit

1. Leave the phone in the bag – Or better yet, the car.
2. Narrate the play – “That fountain surprised you!” helps build language and
   connection.
3. Use physical touch – High fives, hugs, and splashes create safe, sensory bonding.
4. Model joy – When kids see you laughing, it frees them to feel.
5. Reflect afterward – “What was your favourite part?” keeps the memory aliv

What the Kids Said

We also asked children what they noticed about their unplugged parents:

• “Mum was happier.”
• “Dad chased me in the water!”
• “She smiled at me the whole time.

None of them missed the selfies. All of them remembered the moments.

Reclaim the Real

Social media has a way of making us perform our lives rather than live them. But your children
don’t want a highlight reel—they want you. Present, playful, and slightly soggy from chasing
them through the fountains.

So next time you visit Splash Park, take the challenge:

• No phones
• No filters
• Just fun

You might be surprised at what you find when you stop capturing the moment—and start
living in it.